Anchor
A Gray James app
Built for men, by men who want to be the best version of themselves to support their partner

Know the forecast before the weather turns.

The only app about PMDD built for the man on the other side of it. Anchor reads your partner's cycle as a weather line — so her hardest week doesn't blindside you, and you know what helps before you're in it.

// Android first, iOS soon · 5-day free trial, then $24/year (~$2/mo)

The idea

PMDD is a powerful storm. Anchor gives you the tools to weather it.

Premenstrual dysphoric disorder follows the cycle closely — the hardest days tend to arrive in the same window each month. Anchor starts there, with a plain-language forecast so a rough evening reads as weather, not a verdict on the relationship — then backs it with scripts for the hard moments and a way to keep yourself steady.

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ClearingMenstrual — the front passes
CalmFollicular — steady and open
UnsettlingOvulation — the pressure starts to rise
StormLuteal — the PMDD window
What it does

Three things, kept simple.

01 · SEE

See the week coming

A home screen that tells you today's phase in weather terms, and flags the storm window a few days out so you can plan around it — lighter schedule, more patience, no big talks.

02 · SAY

Say the steady thing

Short de-escalation scripts for the moments that go sideways — what to say, what to skip, and a small action that usually helps more than the words do. Written by men who've said the wrong thing too.

03 · STAY

Stay Anchored

The nights you've said things you regret, the wondering if it's even worth it — that's real. Anchor won't fix PMDD, but it gives you a way through: grounded in the storm, steady for her, and you're still here for both of you.

A look inside
Anchor's month calendar, each day tinted by its weather phase so the storm window is visible weeks out
The month at a glanceEvery day tinted by its phase. The hard week stops being a surprise.
Anchor's journal and trend chart, plotting how recent weeks actually felt against the cycle
What actually happenedA quick daily note, charted against the cycle — so patterns show instead of arguments about memory.
Anchor's de-escalation scripts, short lines for the moments that go sideways
Something steady to sayShort scripts for the moments that go sideways — plus the one small action that helps more than the words.
On privacy
on device ✓ in the cloud — sold or shared — account needed — readable by us —

Her cycle data never leaves the phone.

This isn't a tool for keeping tabs on her — it's a tool for steadying yourself. And reproductive-health information deserves more than a promise: Anchor is built so there's nothing to leak — no sign-in, no backend, no analytics SDKs. Read the full privacy statement.

Be the calm in the room.

Anchor won't fix PMDD. It helps you meet it without flinching.

// Android first, iOS soon